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Wednesday Reflections

WEDNESDAY REFLECTIONS

June 21, 2017
 
Dear Members and Friends,
 

I wish you a good summer. This month we are exploring the theme of joy. During this week I am attending denominational meetings with colleagues and then with our wider association, I share with you some readings that look at joy through the lens of service. May we cultivate with one another a Community of Joy!

 
Warmly,
Rev. Alan Taylor
 

 
Realize that true happiness lies within you. Waste no time and effort searching for peace and contentment and joy in the world outside. Remember that there is no happiness in having or in getting, but only in giving. Reach out. Share. Smile. Hug.
- Og Mandino
 
 
Service is not the same as helping. Helping is based on inequality, it's not a relationship between equals. When you help, you use your own strength to help someone with less strength. It's a one up, one down relationship, and people feel this inequality. When we help, we may inadvertently take away more than we give, diminishing the person's sense of self-worth and self-esteem... Serving is also different to fixing. We fix broken pipes; we don't fix people. When I set about fixing another person, it's because I see them as broken. Fixing is a form of judgment that separates us from one another; it creates a distance. So fundamentally, helping, fixing and serving are ways of seeing life. When you help, you see life as weak; when you fix, you see life as broken; and when you serve, you see life as whole. When we serve in this way, we understand that this person's suffering is also my suffering, that their joy is also my joy... We may help or fix many things in our lives, but when we serve, we are always in the service. 
- Rachel Remen
 
 
This is the true joy in life, being recognized by yourself as a mighty one, being a force of nature instead of a feverish clod of ailments and grievances, complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy. I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the whole community and as long as I live it is my privilege to do for it whatever I can. I want to be thoroughly used up when I die, for the harder I work, the more I live. I rejoice in life for its own sake. Life is no brief candle to me; it is a sort of splendid torch which I've got to hold up for a moment. I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations.
- George Bernard Shaw