Unity Temply Unitarian Universalist Congregation

The Transformational Power of Love, Part I

Sermon by Rev. Alan Taylor
Preached at Unity Temple Unitarian Universalist Congregation
January 15, 2006

First Reading:
from Matthew 5:42-26

You have heard that it was said, "You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy." But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, so that you may become sons of your God in Heaven. For God makes the sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. For if you love only those who love you, what reward do you have?"

Second Reading:
Upon receiving the Nobel Peace prize, Martin Luther King, Jr., said in his acceptance speech:

Nonviolence is the answer to the crucial political and moral questions of our time; the need for man to overcome oppression and violence without resorting to oppression and violence. Man must evolve for all human conflict a method which rejects revenge, aggression and retaliation. The foundation of such a method is love.

I refuse to accept the idea that the 'isness' of man's present nature makes him morally incapable of reaching up for the 'oughtness' that forever confronts him.

I refuse to accept the cynical notion that nation after nation must spiral down a militaristic stairway into the hell of nuclear destruction. I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality.

 

Third Reading:

from Buddhist teacher Jack Kornfield’s book, Soul Food, written with Christina Feldman.

 

There is no power greater than the power of love, no shadow that can withstand the power of compassion, no demon that can overwhelm the power of openheartedness. Through their example our eyes are opened to the possibilities of bringing light to our own shadows.  Whether we are in positions of power, or in poverty, we will be tested. We will be asked to summon the spirit of greatness, of compassion, of openheartedness over and over again in our lives. Perhaps this is what we are here for, to learn this single lesson. In the end the strength that we have to fall back upon is not our credentials or accomplishments or the ideals we hold but our humanness itself.

Sermon:

 

The weekend prior to Thanksgiving, I traveled to Columbus, Georgia where Ft. Benning is located. I joined five members of our congregation, 146 members of the Chicago Religious Leadership Network, and over 20,000 people from all across North America to protest the American use, training, and sponsorship of torture. The School of the Americas which has been renamed the Western Hemisphere Institute for Security Cooperation, has trained thousands of soldiers from Latin America in the methods of torture. At Ft. Benning, I encountered countless Presbyterian activists and Catholic nuns, people of faith who remind me that our distinct traditions are not what is of ultimate importance, but our shared humanity.

A funeral procession was held to remember the thousands upon thousands of people who have been tortured and killed by soldiers trained and equipped by American forces, supported by our taxes. As the funeral procession unfolded, and the names were read of people who have been killed by graduates of the School of the Americas, tears filled my eyes in sadness and grief for those lost to violence. But also a deep appreciation welled up inside that so many others care just as deeply as I about the egregious practice of torture. During the funeral procession, most every person carried a cross or a poster that bore the name of a victim. I carried a cross with the name Luz Samora, 33 years old, from Guatemala. When I finally reached the fence that prevented access to Fort Benning, thousands of other crosses already were tucked into the fence. I added mine to the overwhelming number, hardly able to believe that each of these represented a life of a human being that had been killed by paramilitary soldiers trained in the techniques of torture, killing, and cover up. Tears began streaming down my face as my heart sunk with grief and anger and a sense of helplessness.

My thoughts were suddenly interrupted by a group of people cheering. I instantly knew what had happened. A member of the protest had climbed over the fence in an act of civil disobedience. My heart leapt with hope. I realized that I was not alone in my grief and anger, that I was not entirely helpless, that some individuals chose to do more than bear witness. And each person who scaled the fence or found a way through it buoyed the hope of the rest of us. From a young twenty-something girl to a man who looked well over 80, the forty people who crossed over and were arrested symbolized our collective opposition to torture, each of them likely to receive three to six months of jail and a $5,000 fine. When I talked with those who planned to get arrested, they spoke in terms of this being a form of religious witness, not simply a political gesture but a form of creative resistance to evil, indeed an act of love.

These past couple months, I wanted to get clearer on just what it is that I believe that we as human beings are called to put our lives in the service of. And, so, in my journaling, I’d write pages about what is truly important to me and then rewrite and pare it down and do that again and again until finally I arrived at a phrase that just wouldn’t let me go: the transformational power of love. I’m not talking simply about the sentimental, rosy forms of love as lovely as they can be—I’m talking about the kind of love that provides a foundation for living in a fragmented, broken, often hurting world. I’m talking about the kind of love that has been embodied by people who resist injustice such as Martin Luther King, Jr., the kind of love that has the power to transform individuals, relationships, and communities.

This morning’s sermon is the first among a four-part series on the power of love. Over these four sermons, I want to reflect on the power of love, specifically on how love can transform through creative resistance to evil, on how love has been manifested in our Unitarian and Universalist faith traditions, on ways love plays out in relationships to transform individuals, and lastly on the power of love within community, both as I have experienced it and in the pursuit of what Martin Luther King calls the Beloved Community. It was intentional to begin this sermon series on this weekend that celebrates the life of Martin Luther King, Jr. For there is no American, in my mind, who has embodied the transforming power of love so effectively in both word and deed.

Each year, I make it a habit to read or re-read works of Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr. And every year, I derive inspiration from this practice. This year, I focused on autobiographical material, in part because I was told last year that King considered becoming a Unitarian minister before deciding to return to his Baptist roots. I hadn’t ever heard that and I wanted to verify this as well as learn about the development of his own theological perspective. What I have discovered is both inspiring and disturbing. It is true that while in seminary, Martin and Coretta King enjoyed attending Unitarian churches. In his quest to develop a method to overcome social ills, he had become enthralled with what is called “theological liberalism.” And intellectually, they found themselves at home with Unitarian theology, at least at first.

Why did King not enter the Unitarian ministry? First and foremost, he felt that he could not contribute as effectively to cultivating an African American social movement. But secondly, he explains in an essay published in 1960 in the Christian Century called "Pilgrimage to Non-Violence" — published in the series, "How My Mind Has Changed,"

“I was a thoroughgoing liberal.” King wrote. “Liberalism provided me with an intellectual satisfaction that I could never find in fundamentalism.…was absolutely convinced of the natural goodness of man and the natural power of human reason. The basic change in my thinking came when I began to question some of the theories that had been associated with so-called liberal theology. Of course, there is one phase of liberalism that I hope to cherish always: its devotion to the search for truth, its insistence on an open and analytical mind, its refusal to abandon the best light of reason…. It was mainly the liberal doctrine of man that I began to question. The more I observed the tragedies of history and man's shameful inclination to choose the low road, the more I came to see the depths and strength of sin. … I came to recognize the complexity of man's social involvement and the glaring reality of collective evil. I came to feel that liberalism had been all too sentimental concerning human nature and that it leaned toward a false idealism. I also came to see that liberalism's superficial optimism concerning human nature caused it to overlook the fact that reason is darkened by sin. The more I thought about human nature the more I saw how our tragic inclination for sin causes us to use our minds to rationalize our actions. Liberalism failed to see that reason by itself is little more than an instrument to justify man's defensive ways of thinking. Reason, devoid of the purifying power of faith, [a faith based on love], can never free itself from distortions and rationalizations.”

 

King turned away from the Unitarian theology of his day because the Unitarians tended to look to reason as the foundation of their faith, and King came to believe that reason alone was not enough, that the ultimate foundation for social transformation is love.

How did this happen? It all began one Sunday afternoon. He went to Philadelphia to hear a lecture by Mordecai Johnson, the president of Howard University. Johnson had just returned from India and spoke of Gandhi and his method of nonviolent resistance. King was electrified by the address and immediately bought several books on Gandhi and his teachings. He was profoundly inspired by Gandhi’s concept of "Satyagraha" (Satya meaning truth or love, and agraha meaning force; "Satyagraha", therefore meaning truth-force or love force). King writes, “Prior to reading Gandhi, I had about concluded that the ethics of Jesus were only effective in individual relationship. The ‘turn the other cheek’ philosophy and the ‘love your enemies’ philosophy were only valid, I felt, when individuals were in conflict with other individuals; when racial groups and nations were in conflict a more realistic approach seemed necessary. But after reading Gandhi, I saw how utterly mistaken I was. Gandhi was probably the first person in history to lift the love ethic of Jesus above mere interaction between individuals to a powerful and effective social force on a large scale. Love for Gandhi was a potent instrument for social and collective transformation.”

It is one thing to believe it and another to have it tested. When the Montgomery bus boycott shook his community and the nation first learned the name of Rosa Parks, King agreed to be the spokesman. King later reflected, “As the days unfolded, I came to see the power of nonviolence more and more. Living through the actual experiences of the protest, nonviolence became more than a method to which I gave intellectual assent; it became a commitment to a way of life.” It is important to note that Rosa Parks did not one day simply decide not to get up out of her seat when asked. She was one among a coordinated group of social activists who carefully planned their non-violent actions according to Gandhian principles and the power of love.

The Greek is helpful to sort out what King and Gandhi mean by love, for, as King often pointed out, the Greek language has three different words for love. First there is eros. Eros originally signified the soul’s longing for the divine but over time has come to mean romantic love. Then there is philia. Philia is love of friends and kin, love that gets reciprocated and produces feelings of belonging. And finally there is agape. Agape love seeks understanding and goodwill for all. It is neighborly love, a spontaneous, unmotivated love for humanity. Agape is loving others for their sake, regardless of whether they are friend or foe. King goes on to say, “Agape is not a weak, passive love. It is love in action. Agape is love seeking to preserve and create community. … Agape is a willingness to sacrifice in the interest of mutuality.” King calls agape, “the love of God operating in the human heart.”

Gandhi said to his countrymen, “Rivers of blood may have to flow before we gain our freedom, but it must be our blood.” Martin Luther King justifies inviting his own people for this mass political application of the ancient doctrine of turning the other cheek with one short sentence: Suffering for the sake of love is redemptive. I’ll repeat it: Suffering for the sake of love is redemptive. This is not an easy idea for me, a privileged man in the 21st century to swallow. But many of those who have tasted struggle, and many of whom have raised children have come to know this. Many parents go to such great lengths for their children; they make tremendous sacrifices. And they do this out of love, philia love. Agape love asks us to consider what sacrifices we are willing to make for the sake of people outside our circle of close friends and family.

 

Now, I don’t want to say that suffering is good in and of itself. It’s not. I don’t want to suggest that you ought to go out and suffer for suffering’s sake.  No, what I’m saying is that when you act in the name of love, suffering may result—it likely will result, but that suffering in the name of love holds transforming possibilities. King quotes Gandhi as saying, "Things of fundamental importance to people are not secured by reason alone, but have to be purchased with their suffering.” Gandhi continues: "Suffering is infinitely more powerful than the law of the jungle for converting the opponent and opening his ears which are otherwise shut to the voice of reason." And here we come to the crux of why Martin Luther King was not a Unitarian in his day. Reason does not provide the primary vehicle for a way of life that seeks to change people and society for the better. Love does.

Now love may not have been at the center of Unitarian theology, but it has always played a central role in Universalist theology. Another sermon will explore Universalism more thoroughly, but there is a significant Universalist connection to today’s theme of the kind of love that transforms society and the world. Over the ages, there have been two significant interpretations of the gospel’s call to resist evil by acting in the name of love. One interpretation is to withdraw from all evil structures in society and instead cloister one’s community around the ideal of love while minimizing interactions with the wider world. This has long been the route taken by oppressed Christian communities and resulted in them being virtually unknown by those in power. Indeed it provided a method of survival for religious communities under brutal regimes. Another interpretation of the gospel’s call is to seek to change the world by engaging in society and its structures of government—to bring the talent and influence of members of one’s community in the service of the ideals of love. In 1846, Adin Ballou, a Universalist, originally synthesized the two in his groundbreaking work Christian Non-Resistance. Several historians acknowledge that Gandhi’s revolutionary idea of satyagraha, was in part inspired by our Universalist heritage, as Ballou argued that we cannot withdraw from society if we want to change it, but we can choose to seek to actively withdraw from structures of evil by resisting injustice and violence through the power of love. It is interesting to note that Ballou's Christian Non-Resistance was published three years before Thoreau's Civil Disobedience.

When I was at Fort Benning and walking in the funeral procession, I suddenly realized that I was in the presence of agape love shared by twenty thousand people. The night before I heard a young woman named Jennifer recount her story of scaling the fence the previous year. The act of civil disobedience was for her an act of love, an act of love that changed her life and the lives of others. For she said that she has long been opposed to the School of the Americas, but that the people she talked to would typically look at her funny. It was as if the stories she told about American trained soldiers who tortured and killed others had done so on another planet—it was simply too far removed from other people for them to understand. And then, last year she decided that she was willing to go to jail and pay a fine for what she believes in. For her, this was a religious calling, an act of love. And this action transformed her life. Plenty of others supported her so that she didn’t suffer financially. As for going to jail, now she had a story that when she tells people that she was imprisoned for calling upon the closing of the School of Americas, her acquaintances listen—and listen intently. For the slight young woman they knew had gone to prison on account of a peaceful protest. Here was someone they knew personally that had suffered for the sake of others. Her act of love provides leverage to her spoken convictions that her acquaintances are more responsive than ever before.

Jennifer’s words remind me of those of Martin Luther King, Jr.: “The nonviolent resister does not seek to dodge jail. If going to jail is necessary, he enters it ‘as a bridegroom enters the bride's chamber.’” Congress closed down the School of the Americas five years ago, but it then let it open three months later under a new name in the same buildings with the same faculty and virtually the same curriculum. People like Jennifer have generated growing opposition to the School of the Americas among our elected leaders, and this May, Congress shall likely vote on whether to close what many call “the  School of Torture.”

 

Agape love finds ways to sacrifice with others for the sake of justice. And it also is the kind of love that cultivates personal dignity. To paraphrase King, if I meet hate with hate, I disconnect from my own humanity, because creation is so designed that my personality can only be fulfilled in the context of community. Then King quotes Booker T. Washington: “Let no one pull you so low as to make you hate.” And to paraphrase King: When someone pulls you that low that person brings you to the point of working against community, dragging you to the point of abnegating your dignity. Agape love recognizes that, in the final analysis, all life is interrelated. All humanity is involved in a single process, and all human beings are kin.

 

As Buddhist teacher Jack Kornfield says: “There is no power greater than the power of love. Whether we are in positions of power, or in poverty, we will be tested. We will be asked to summon the spirit of greatness, of compassion, of openheartedness over and over again in our lives. Perhaps this is what we are here for, to learn this single lesson. In the end the strength that we have to fall back upon is not our credentials or accomplishments or the ideals we hold but our humanness itself.”

 

To strengthen ourselves, I have come to believe that we need to hone not so much our capacity to reason as we need to hone our capacity to love. For it is in our innate humanness where God dwells. As we cultivate our capacity to live in the name of love, we participate ever more in the creation of goodness and the resistance to evil and injustice.

 

May this be our work. Blessed be. Amen.

© Copyright 2006 Rev. Alan Taylor, All Rights Reserved.

 


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