Unity Temply Unitarian Universalist Congregation

How We Walk Together

Sermon by John Cullinan
Preached at Unity Temple Unitarian Universalist Congregation
October 16, 2005

First Reading:
from Genesis

Now the whole earth had one language and the same words. And as they migrated from the east, they came upon a plain in the land of Shinar and settled there. And they said to one another, “Come, let us make bricks, and burn them thoroughly.” And they had brick for stone, and bitumen for mortar. Then they said, “Come, let us build ourselves a city, and a tower with its top in the heavens, and let us make a name for ourselves; otherwise we shall be scattered abroad upon the face of the whole earth.” God came down to see the city and the tower, which mortals had built. And God said, “Look, they are one people, and they have all one language; and this is only the beginning of what they will do; nothing that they propose to do will now be impossible for them. Come, let us go down, and confuse their language there, so that they will not understand one another’s speech.” So God scattered them abroad from there over the face of all the earth, and they left off building the city. Therefore, it was called Babel, because there God confused the language of all the earth; and from there God scattered them abroad over the face of all the earth.

Second Reading:
from Engaging Our Theological Diversity, by the UUA Commission on Appraisal

Diversity, both cultural and religious, has been the watchword of the movement’s recent past, and insofar as that indicates UUs’ sincere desire to be truly open and welcoming of people of all sorts in the UU fellowship, that emphasis is all to the good. And certainly the world today sorely needs communities of faith, indeed communities of all kinds, that are models of inclusion and pluralism where human differences do not divide. But, diversity by itself, important as it is, is an insufficient institutional goal. More pressing is the question of what we are calling people into community for. If we are a religious community, shouldn’t we be able to articulate theologically and religiously what it is that unites us?

 

Sermon:

"So, how do you Unitarians use the Bible, anyway?”

I had been expecting this question. From the moment I had begun my work as an intern chaplain at the hospital, I knew that at some point I was going to be getting into a debate, or even an argument, about religious belief and authority. With such a broad range of religious cultures and beliefs working together in a relatively small space, the theological infighting was, I believed, inevitable. So, when Michael, the fundamentalist evangelical in the office, asked me the Bible question, I came back with my prepared response.

“It’s one book out of many that we use. It’s a source of inspiration, and it’s open to interpretation, but it’s not in any way authoritative. Some of us don’t use it at all.”

And then I steeled myself, went into an intellectually defensive stance, and waited with my breath held for the ideological pummeling I was certain would follow.

Michael paused for a moment and thought about what I had just said.

“Oh,” he replied, “I guess that cancels out the next question I was going to ask. Never mind, then.” And then he turned back to his computer to continue writing up a report on one of his patient visits from earlier that morning.

And I stood there, stunned.

Where was the fight, the attempt to argue against my scriptural flippancy and win my soul for Jesus? Where was the theological debate I’d been expecting?

The answer to these questions was deceptively simple, and had been staring me in the face for weeks before this exchange with my evangelical co-worker.

On most of the shifts I worked at the hospital, the intern chaplains’ suite was usually occupied by three people: myself (Socialist liberal Unitarian Universalist), Michael, the aforementioned conservative evangelical fundamentalist Christian, and Wajid, a rare specimen, the oft talked about but seldom seen up close fundamentalist Muslim.

You might expect dangerous chemical reactions to occur between such disparate, volatile elements when placed in the crucible of a shared office. Your expectations, like mine, would be confounded. Michael and Wajid’s tenures at the hospital had preceded mine by a few months, and they were already fast friends by the time I arrived on the scene. Their camaraderie perplexed many who knew them and their religious backgrounds. At best, folks in the hospital expected of each a grudging tolerance of the other. What they got instead was a close working friendship between the two. Other chaplains scrambled for explanations for a relationship that seemed to them impossible.

“It’s their fundamentalism,” one said to me. “It gives them a shared worldview.” On the surface, that seemed like a reasonable explanation. But the sources of each of their “fundamentals” came from such different worlds, it seemed improbable to me that a shared love for literal interpretation of their respective scriptures was enough to form such a strong bond between the two. Coupled with this doubt was the fact that, the more I worked with the two, the more I became drawn into the circle of this working relationship. Fundamentalism certainly was not the factor that connected me to them.

What was it, then?

After the near miss of the Bible fight between Michael and myself, we went back to our respective report writing. When a few moments had passed, Michael sat down beside me.

“I’ve got a patient you need to go visit. I think he needs a different face besides mine.”

“When you’re done there,” says Wajid, “I need to get both of your perspectives on one of my visits.”

And there was my answer. None of us had come into the hospital to debate theology. We had come to the hospital to “do” theology. We had come to the hospital with a sense of mission and ministry, and our shared sense of mission, our drive to meet the needs of others – our practical theology – had trumped our conceptual, ideological theologies.

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Here is one of my favorite jokes about Unitarian Universalists: wherever two or more are gathered, no one will agree and coffee will be served.

Here is one of my favorite questions from the Hebrew Scriptures: the prophet Amos asks, “Can two people walk together unless they are agreed?”

The Unitarian Universalist Association’s Commission on Appraisal begins its latest study, Engaging Our Theological Diversity, by asking an important question: where is the unity in our theological diversity? There is a certain tension in that question that feels something like the rift that opens in the pairing of the Unitarian joke and the quote from Amos. It is a tension that has been building up since the time of the merger of Unitarianism and Universalism in 1961. Two religions with distinct theological centers join together, but avoid staking any claim on theological ground – perhaps in keeping with both churches’ traditions of non-creedalism, or perhaps out of some fear that the theologies might not be at all compatible. The benefit of this circumstance is the creation of this “big tent” sense of inclusiveness when it comes to religious belief. The drawback is that, frequently, once you’re inside the tent, you sit at a table with your fellow believers and rarely interact with the other tables, at least when it comes to beliefs. This often translates into a certainty that on some level, we are being excluded from full participation.

In Unitarian Universalism today, there is more often than not a fear or mistrust of the theology of the other, that sense of exclusion leading many to believe that they are somehow in a minority. This fear shows itself most sharply when leaders in the church begin throwing around phrases and ideas such as “a language of reverence” or “unity in theological diversity.” After the Commission on Appraisal presented their report at General Assembly this past June, I began to hear remarkably similar comments from Unitarian Universalists who identified themselves along all points of the theological spectrum.

“That language won’t be my language.” “They’re not talking about me.” And, most disheartening, “They’re trying to take my religion away from me.”

The overwhelming sense I came away with at general assembly was that, whatever is happening to Unitarian Universalism, and something is happening, it isn’t going to include them.

On the converse side of the feeling that everything would be lost theologically, was the notion that, for some reason, one’s “side” needed to have some sort of outright win. Coupled with the desperation felt over the lack of inclusion, was a seeming urge to play theology as some sort of zero-sum, winner-take-all game. In one on-line discussion group, the conversation around the idea of unity in diversity became framed around a question of “tipping points.” “What are the circumstances,” it was asked, “in which you'd feel you no longer belong in your own religious home?” It’s discussions such as this that lead one of my colleagues to refer to the unity question as, “the great denominational red herring.” It’s a good question on the surface, but one that ultimately leads to griping and negativity, and not any sort of constructive discussion about the question of our unity. A sense of fear becomes evident in the discussion, and much of that fear centers on the use of words.

This is hardly surprising. We are a denomination in love with words. After all, the high point of a majority of Unitarian Universalist worship services is when some guy or gal in a nice suit or maybe even a robe stands up in the pulpit and talks at you for fifteen to twenty minutes or so.

But, are words sufficient for faith? When we talk about a language of reverence, what do we mean when we say “language?” When we talk about finding unity in diversity, are we merely focusing on the words of personal beliefs and creeds?

I believe that language, specifically a spiritual language, inhabits many more dimensions than just mere words. My attempts to communicate with you on a spiritual level begin with ideas rooted in personal experience. Sometimes these ideas are verbal in nature. Often times they are not. I translate these ideas into the spoken word, and release those words from the pulpit or in a pastoral conversation, knowing full well that the words I speak and the words you hear are two entirely different creatures. My words (hopefully) translate back into ideas in your minds.

What are the odds that our ideas look the same at the end of this process?

Now perhaps by conspiracy of time and culture we might share some common, archetypal ideas or experiences that help to bridge the gap between our ideas and our words. The more concrete the word or experience, the easier it is to build that bridge.

If I say the word “brown,” the majority of you are probably thinking the same thing. If I say the word “dance,” some groups of different images are starting to crop up here and there, perhaps divided along generational lines.

And what if I were to say the word “grace”? Or “salvation.” Or even “God.”

Do the words do my ideas justice? Are my ideas and your ideas remotely connected? Are we even speaking the same language? If mere words are insufficient, then, what’s left?

I used to keep a Post-it note near my computer when I was writing my entrance essay for seminary. It read, “Faith is a verb.” Or, in the words of my undergraduate acting professors: Show. Don’t tell.

The church requires more than our words. It demands an active, practical element to faith. The action – the mission – becomes the third dimension of this religious vocabulary, and our faith becomes something demonstrable rather than something merely debatable.

It is interesting to note that the Arabic word for belief comes from a root that means, “that which can be shown.”  I learned that from a Muslim.

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Wajid, Michael, and I continued working out of our shared office for most of the summer months. As we worked together in our shared ministry, our appreciation for one another’s faiths deepened. Granted, we avoided volatile topics such as scripture and interpretation, but what we learned through the daily exercise of our practical theologies was what it was about our faiths that impelled us into this ministry. What we would not have been able to understand had we merely been sitting in a room talking about our religions, we were able to embrace about each other because we had ministered together first.         

When it came time for Michael and Wajid to move on, the chaplaincy staff sat down together to worship and wish them well. The two friends led the service, each bringing a piece of their own faith traditions into the chapel. Michael read from the Bible, and for a moment I was able to see what he saw in scripture through the filter of his ministry. More amazing was Wajid, who opened the service with the traditional call to prayer in Arabic. It is a language I do not speak, although I am aware of the English translation of the call. To see Wajid in that moment through the lens of our shared understanding of our call to service was to see an oft-misunderstood religion breach barriers of culture and language for one brief moment and become something beautiful.

Disparate faiths brought us together. The call to comfort the sick and the dying and their loved ones opened our faiths up to each other. We left with our faiths enriched by the shared mission.

I was concerned that perhaps this understanding I had gained of the place of mission in religious dialogue came out of a special circumstance. Perhaps it was possible that Michael, Wajid, and I had achieved something special at one time, in one place, with results not repeatable outside the zone of the hospital.

My first week here in Oak Park proved this fear unfounded. Within a week of arriving at Unity Temple, I found myself sitting in a room of clergy and other representatives from multiple faiths: Christians both liberal and conservative, Jews, Buddhists, and more. We had come together to discuss how we could better coordinate our efforts in serving the needs of the poor and homeless in the community. The only audible religious language was the prayer that opened the brunch. After that, the clergy got down to business, sharing stories of what they knew of the needs in the community, and building a plan to create a central place of service where local churches can channel their resources so that all needy members of the community can find a way back into society. The word “God” was never spoken. But you’d better believe the language was one of faith.

Our varied faiths brought us to the table, but the work kept us there.

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The exercise of a practical theology is by no means an ultimate solution. The mission is not a replacement for honest theological dialogue. We come into the “big tent” of Unitarian Universalism from many different traditions. Some cherish their heritage. Others are wounded by it. There is talking that needs to be done, but sometimes the words get in the way. Sometimes we are left stranded at the table of those “just like us,” afraid to engage with others for fear of being labeled “different” or worse, discovering there is no place for us in the tent after all. But, where do we start when words are not enough?

Do we, like the builders of Babel, abandon the job when our language is confused? Do we echo Amos, and ask if we can possibly walk together without being in agreement?

Or do we, perhaps, name our purpose and our mission in the world, put words aside for a while, and just begin to walk?

© Copyright 2005 John Cullinan, All Rights Reserved.

 


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